小胖的莫名世界 ~左想右想 什么都别想~: 痛……
16 October 2007
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痛……

好友为了助人,毅然做了一个重要的决定。这几天,他在承受这个决定所带来的痛苦。

看着他痛苦的样子,有点不舍,但助人为快乐之本,所以全力支持他的决定。我不能为他做些什么,能给的也只有精神上的支持而已。我虽然无法感受到那种痛楚,但能够理解、能够想象。

问他说,如果日后再出现同样的情况,他是否还愿意再一次承受同样的痛苦?他有点犹豫,但给我猜对了,他的答案是肯定的。认识他这么久,他的为人如何,基本上还算相当了解。

他不经意地说了好几遍“痛”,脸上的那个表情很叫人心疼。安慰他说:“不要想太多了。重要的是,记得当初为何会做这个决定。只要记住那个理由,一切就能熬过去了。”

突然想起台湾火红的歌唱选秀节目《超级星光大道》,主持人陶晶莹曾经告诉参赛的小弟小妹,不论以后的路会是如何,最重要记住当初为什么报名参加比赛。

留住最初的热情,就留住一辈子的感动,其他什么都不是太重要了。



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3 Comments:

我也支持他!

By Anonymous OKSan, at 16 October, 2007 20:24  

Although I don't know what your friend has done, but I appreciate his kindness.

But on your statement "留住最初的热情,就留住一辈子的感动,其他什么都不是太重要了", this sounds very idea, and in fact romantic. But in reality, is it true? It may involve opportunity cost. I guess usually the motivation to do something "big" or make a sacrifice, is usually because or fora person. Yes, it may sound great, because of the 热情 and 感动 at that time, but after x years, after looking back, you may think if i did not do that, i may xxxxxx. and more importantly, the motivating factor or person should still appreciate your effort. If, in the end, the motivating factor is no longer valid, or the person no longer value your sacrifice, or the thing just don't work out as what initially expected or wanted, it may become another sad story.

oh.... I don't mean not supporting your friend. I am just talking totally something in another context.

I appreciate people to be real, to be romantic and be good to others. but sometimes, the reality may be cruel.

Just some general comments and thoughts.

By Anonymous Anonymous, at 16 October, 2007 21:02  

i can't reveal what my friend did... but i am sure the person which got help will forever remember his deed...

my friend did suffer a bit in the process, but i believe it is worth the cause... he believes it too...

the world is definitely a cruel place... we can only do our best to preserve what we think is important...

u are right that it does sound idealistic... but as long as we strive for it, i think tt's good enough, even though we might not achieve a 100% of what we want to achieve...

热情,因为热,所以容易冷却。要维持,需要那份赤子之心,不容易啊。

By Blogger 小胖, at 17 October, 2007 10:31  

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