话题……
又喝喜酒了,这回是小学同学WD。同桌的是五个老同学,加上我,三男三女。难得碰面,大家一坐下就开始聊近况。
三个女同学都是妈妈了,MJ的女儿22个月大,PS的女儿五个月大。刚生产没多久的是SJ,儿子才两个月大,她的身材就已经恢复得七七八八,但还嚷着说还有五公斤没甩掉。明明已经瘦得让很多人羡慕了,还是不满意,女人对体重的标准还真设得有够高的。
既然都当妈妈了,她们很自然就谈起妈妈经来了,加上SY 8月也要荣升爸爸级别,大伙儿谈来谈去,就是在谈怎样带孩子、该生多少个、孩子给生活带来的改变等。话题都围绕着小孩。
SY说,我们真的是老了,六个人都已经踏过30大关了,婚宴上竟然已经只在谈孩子的事情了。
可不是,以前喝喜酒,朋友都爱问:“几时轮到你结婚啊?”现在,大家好像都对此事不感兴趣了。这也好,不用回答这个问题,乐得清闲。我和单身的CW也加入讨论,发表一些看法,一点也没闲着。
每逢出席婚宴,都蛮高兴的,相信其他朋友也是如此,因为婚宴实际上是难得的老朋友聚会。SJ就是最好的例子,有理由走出家门、暂时离开小孩一会儿,同朋友见面。
To response to your last 2 posts, the usual question to ask:
So when is your turn to step out of your current comfort zone, and when is your turn to host a wedding banquet, and when is your turn to buy milk powder?
Interesting question indeed, but is marriage something one chases after or something that comes as part of one's destiny? Hmm... 不通不通。=)
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It's really hard to say...
Leaving comfort zone? Frankly speaking, this is one thing that I have gave thought before. Guess there's no action as of now.
Wedding banquet? I might just register the marriage and fly off without a grand celebration. Who knows? Provided the person appears.
Milk powder? Let me solve the above question first.
By 小胖, at 29 January, 2007 00:16